I really believed that a break-up would be like a magical point in time where everything would be different after it.
Partly that appeared to be true. All the immense fears that I thought I would have to face, didn’t raise their heads. On the contrary: I encountered a deep foundation of inner trust and self-love.
On the other hand, the break-up didn’t change a lot of things. There are still the same patterns between me and him. Maybe they are even stronger, as there is nothing to save anymore.
And yes, after living in one house for nine years, being single gets lonely sometimes…